Feedback strategies when praising your kids.

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https://www.kqed.org/mindshift/34778/the-difference-between-praise-and-feedback 

https://www.kqed.org/mindshift/40369/preschoolers-and-praise-messages-that-can-help-kids-grow


Source: Parent Map

I have chosen these two articles to read as there are lots of interesting information about how to speak to children when it comes to praise them. Lots of parents tend to judge their kid for doing something like" Good boy" or " Good girl", I have come across to this so many times, I was doing it myself, which is incorrect, instead of judging kids actions we start judging their personality, which can be very harmful as they can grow thinking that they must earn their parents love with doing something. It can be extremely dangerous for their self-esteem and can make them think that love is conditional, which is wrong for developing a confidence. In the articles It was suggested to praise kids for their actions acknowledge the action they were doing or even the process how they do it. For instance:” You work very hard on your running technique that is why today you won the race.” 

It is a habit and many parents do not even think why it is so harmful for raising a confident individual, but if we talk about it more parents can be educated about it can solve lots of problems, so that is why I think awareness of the power of certain words is quite important when giving feedback to our children. 



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